SDS Resources for Families

The transition from high school to college is a milestone that can be just as exciting, stressful, and rewarding for families as it is for the students themselves. At Butler University, we recognize that for students with disabilities, this move involves navigating new laws and procedures that differ significantly from the K-12 environment. Your student will be stepping into a role of self advocate, exploring their independence without their parents to facilitate accommodations on their behalf. It can be scary for students and parents! To support you through this change, Student Disability Services (SDS) has gathered resources to help parents and families understand how we facilitate equitable access and individualized support within the Bulldog Community! 

Many families find clarity and comfort in Dr. Jane Jarrow’s “Open Letter to Parents of Students about to Enter College.” As a former Executive Director of AHEAD (The Association of Higher Education and Disability) and a current disability consultant, Dr. Jarrow is a premier expert in the field, but more importantly, she is the parent of a student with a significant disability. Her perspective offers a rare, comforting blend of professional expertise and firsthand personal experience for those navigating the transition to college. 

Additionally, Elizabeth Cohen Hamblet’s website is an invaluable resource for families. As a prominent ADHD/LD consultant, Hamblet provides a clear roadmap of the shift from high school to college level services. Her expertise helps demystify the transition, offering practical guidance on how accommodations change once a student leaves the K-12 system and enters the university environment. Her website has a wealth of useful info, and we also highly recommend her book, Seven Steps to College Success. She’s a great follow on LinkedIn and other social media as well. 

We know families often have similar questions as they support their students. To help, we’ve organized the most common ones into a few key themes below:

Navigating the registration process & timeline

Student responsibilities & FERPA privacy guidelines

Student well-being & campus resources

Differences between high school and college

The transition to college brings exciting changes and new responsibilities. To help you and your student prepare, we’ve outlined the major differences between high school and college in the table below.

TopicHigh SchoolCollege
Responsibility & FreedomTeachers, counselors, and principals are responsible for providing students with the support services they need.

Much of a student’s time is structured for him/her.
Limits are set by parents, teachers, and other adults.
Each school day schedule is similar.
Students are responsible for requesting assistance and advice when needed.

Each school day schedule can be different, and the student must decide how to divide their time between academics, social time, extracurriculars, and work.
Class TimeStudents sit in class for six hours per day for 180 days.
This totals 1,080 hours per school year. Most classes last a full school year, about 40 weeks.

Content from homework is usually re-taught in class.
Students sit in class about 15 hours per week, 15 weeks per semester. This totals 450 hours each school year. Classes last one semester, about 16 weeks, but cover as much content (or more) as a high school course.

Content from out-of-class assignments or readings is typically not re-taught in class.
Study TimeHomework ranges between 1–3 hours per day.Plan for at least 2–3 hours of homework for every hour spent in class: 4–5 hours of homework each day. This includes reading and preparation for class and reviewing class notes daily.
Tests & AssignmentsTests are given weekly or at the end of a chapter, and/or frequent quizzes are given.

Assignments are broken down into step-by-step tasks.
Teachers often write homework on the board or give daily reminders of due dates.
There are fewer tests, perhaps 2–3 each semester. Each test covers more material, possibly 3–5 chapters/units.

Instructions are less specific. It’s up to students to determine how to complete assignments. Professors typically only mention a due date once, or list it on a syllabus, and do not give reminders.
GradesClassroom attendance and participation contributes to your grade, along with numerous quizzes, tests, and homework assignments.

Assignments are usually turned in during class time.
Fewer tests and fewer homework assignments are used to determine your grade. You must earn C’s or above to maintain satisfactory academic standing.

Assignments may be due outside of class time, and likely turned in on Canvas.
TeachersTeachers often take attendance, may check notebooks, put information on the board, and directly impart knowledge and facts. Teachers monitor your progress and are likely to offer clarification or assistance when needed.

Teachers remind students of assignments, due dates, and incomplete work.
Professors may not teach from the textbook, often lecture non-stop, and students often must acquire knowledge/facts from outside reading and library research. Students will need to monitor their progress and ask for assistance.

Students are expected to read the course syllabus and check their Canvas site to stay up to date on course materials, due dates, etc.
Parent RoleThe parent is often an advocate and works with teachers and counselors to assure the student is being supported academically.The parent is a mentor and offers the student support and encouragement, but the student is responsible for working directly with professors and asking for help when needed.
SupportTeachers approach students if they believe a student needs additional assistance. Teachers will set students up with appropriate supports.Students are expected to initiate conversation if they need additional support outside of the classroom. This might include attending a professor’s office hours or asking about other support offices on campus. Professors will then make referrals to other campus supports but may not set up services on behalf of a student.

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